I believe that I indirectly understood the power of the mind even as a small girl. From a very young age, I was able to observe people and notice that societies, and therefore their cultures, were very much shaped around the thoughts and feelings of their inhabitants. Why were people pessimistic, conservative yet very loving in one area of the world while on the other side people were open-minded, friendly yet full of fear?
I’ve also noticed over the years that those who took responsibility of creating their lives were genuinely happy, successful and had the life of their dreams. While others who felt they were victims or felt the world owed them something, floated around lost and confused and unable to really know or have what they want.
Here are secrets to creating the life of your dreams. Anything is possible if you just put your mind to it. Get to know yourself through your thoughts, feeling and any blocks you may have towards achieving what you really want.
- Know what you want
This may come as obvious one, but you would be surprised to know that most people have not taken the time to really understand in detail what they want in their life. If you had all the money you ever needed (millions or billions), what would you really want? This can cover anything from material things, relationships, personal goals and careers, education, etc. Make a list of 50 things, keep it all in positive language and in present tense, as if you have it already.
For example, “I have a beautiful beach house in the South of France made of smooth rocks with a white roof and blue shutters. It has 4 spacious bedrooms and it is filled with natural light and the refreshing smell of the ocean…”
- Make a Vision Board
The mind creates through images so the next step would be to make a vision board. You can organize your vision board so that you have specific areas for love and relationships, an area for career and personal goals, another for material things such as a home, car etc. Then go through plenty of magazines and even images that you may find on the internet and select those that best reflect what is there in your mind’s eye. Once complete, keep your vision board somewhere where you can see it frequently, ideally on your bedroom or living room wall. The more you see it, the better as subconsciously your mind is working its magic towards making it all happen! (post on this coming soon)
Everything on my first vision board manifested with 2 years, including marriage, properties, children, career and more! This really works.
- Take Action and Focus
The mind is an incredibly powerful force and it will always be busy doing something. So you need to keep it focused with that list of all the beautiful, magical things that you want in your life as opposed to all the dramas and craziness that we may find ourselves in from time to time (or for some it may be all the time!). Remember Newton’s third law back from physics class? For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction…which means, we need to take action to make our dreams come true! If you want to go back to university to get your MBA, you need to actually research the universities that you would like attend, apply, write any essays required, pay the application fees etc in order to make your dream of continuing your education a reality.
- Believe That you Deserve it
This is a big one. For many of us, I was included in this at one point, there are self-esteem and worthiness related issues, even fears in the way of manifesting or making our dreams a reality. If it’s your dream to have your true divine soul mate next to you but you have thoughts that it will never happen or that eventually they will leave you, then that will definitely stop you from creating a soul mate. Work on self-love, worthiness and releasing any fears that are blocking you from living the life you dream of- through meditation or consulting with a mind therapist to help you shift those deep rooted blocks. So believing is the key to feeling that you deserve everything that you’ve ever wanted…then witness the majestic wonders of creation as its best.
Hey, you’re one step closer to making your dreams come true!